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A tribute to Jo Cox
Today, Paul Taylor tells us about the tributes to Jo Cox in Batley, her constituency in Yorkshire.
Yesterday was an incredibly emotional – and uplifting – day. I was honoured to be asked to host the #MoreInCommon event in Batley, Yorkshire where we celebrated what would have been Jo Cox’s 42nd birthday, her life, her work and her legacy. We joined up with events in London and many other venues around the world.
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Events in London, including yet another brave and humbling testament from Jo’s husband Brendan, were beamed back to us in West Yorkshire and then Jo’s inspirational sister Kim sent more words of love and hope from Batley to the rest of the world. Although the day was hard at times, it was ultimately about the love that has flowed from the tragic events of last Thursday.
In front of a packed Market Square, I was privileged to introduce two choirs, religious leaders from the area and the Head Teacher of a local school along with two of her pupils who gave heartfelt testimony to the time Jo had spent with them and what a difference she made. Finally we were all given pledge cards so that we can all go on-line to show how we will #LoveLikeJo.
I then had the opportunity to speak to BBC’s Look North and was very happy to explain once again the work Royal Voluntary Service does with lonely and isolated older people locally and nationally as well as why Jo Cox saw us as a natural partner to work with.
Before going on air, I was standing by a row of taxis and one of the drivers wound down his window and told me “I was there today and it was brilliant; she was so highly thought of”.
Jo’s death has devastated a whole community, but it has made them stronger, more resilient and ready to help build her legacy. And with the help of the Memorial Fund, Royal Voluntary Service will be right there beside them to help build and sustain that legacy.
Read Paul’s previous blog Jo Cox – A Fitting Legacy. Find out how to volunteer or get help near you.
Jo Cox - a fitting legacy
Paul Taylor, Head of Development & Support for East England, met Jo Cox MP and worked with staff and volunteers to help make Jo’s vision of ending isolation and loneliness a reality.
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It is an honour and a privilege that Royal Voluntary Service has been chosen as one of the charities to take forward the excellent work Jo Cox was doing before her tragic death. It has been a very hard weekend; it is one thing to see a place like the Market Square on television but quite another to find yourself there as I did on Saturday afternoon, surrounded by the grief of a community who loved and valued Jo so deeply. However, I was also struck by was the resilience and cohesion of that community and a sense of wanting something positive to come out of such a profound tragedy.
When I first met Jo around six months ago, she invited us into her new constituency office in Batley. Having only recently moved in, “spartan” is probably the word that best described the office but Jo sat us down, made sure we all had a hot drink and a biscuit and then told us that the main thing she wanted to do was listen. Once she had listened, she offered ideas on how she could help, including heading up a re-launch of one of our key Home from Hospital services. Jo worked so closely with us; spending freely given time with staff and volunteers, learning about their work and issues.
Jo also gave us the chance to work with her at the strategic level; representatives from Royal Voluntary Service and other partners were working with Jo on engendering a Parliamentary Commission on Loneliness. I know that all partners remain committed to this Commission still happening despite last week’s tragic events.
Her memorial fund reached over £1million in less than four days - a fantastic achievement but no real surprise given the massive regard Jo was held in both locally and nationally. Clearly we would all rather that things were otherwise and that we still had Jo’s energy and belief powering our work along but we will work with her family to ensure that a fitting legacy will survive her. We all offer massive condolences and heartfelt sympathy to Brendan and the family and applaud their fantastic work to channel their grief into sustaining Jo’s legacy.
Musical ‘Happy Hour’ brings back memories
Ruth Hannah from Musical Memories tells us about her singing ‘Happy
Hour’ sessions in Pickering
and the positive effect it has on the older
people who attend.
I started Musical Memories, which is a
social enterprise, to give older people the opportunity to sing together
and enjoy each other’s company. It helps to combat loneliness and
isolation and improves health and well-being.We sing songs
of yesteryear because they are familiar to many older people; they help
to stimulate the memory and encourage reminiscence. Studies have shown
that singing together can boost levels of immunity, reduce stress and
improve mood, having a positive impact on overall health and well-being.
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Musical Memories ‘Happy Hour’ is a fun, social singing session for
older people. Singing many of the best known songs of the 20th century
and accompanied by piano and guitar, it is the perfect opportunity get
together in a social setting, have a cuppa, reminisce, make new friends
Since we started in October, the number of people
attending our ‘Happy Hour’ has grown and grown. We warmly welcome
everyone with a cup of tea and a biscuit and then we get down to the
real fun – singing and remembering.Everyone is provided
with a songbook in large type face for easy reading, I play the stage
piano and my husband, Neil, plays the electric guitar to lead the
singing with the group.
Each month has a focus or a theme:
we had a wonderful time at Christmas playing sleigh bells and swannee
whistles; for February we sung from specially collated ‘Love Song’
booklets and in March we focused on songs with girls’ names in them for
International Women’s Day. This month, our theme has been British songs
from the Eurovision Song Contest so we’ve been singing classics like
‘Puppet on a String’.
Some of the older people come to the
sessions by themselves while others are accompanied by neighbours or
relatives who also stay to enjoy the singing. One neighbour picks up
three ladies and brings them to the session each week. Many stay on for
the lunch club which is held afterwards for a meal and the opportunity
for even more socialising.
It is lovely to see how the
sessions affect the older people that attend. One gentleman attends with
his daughter, who also stays to sing. He particularly likes the songs
from the musicals. He recently told his doctor ‘This is my medicine’ as
it made him feel so much better.
Another lady initially
appeared quite shy and reticent but over the weeks has become quite
playful. She was recently seen leaving one session confidently singing
‘Kiss me honey, honey kiss me’ – a real favourite of the group. After
singing ‘Slow Boat to China’, another gentleman recalled, in
conversation with Neil, his father’s wartime experiences in China.
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"I'm a proud volunteer"
As part of our Volunteers’ Week blog series, we’re taking you around the country to meet our volunteers.
We’d like to introduce you to Bev, 29, who volunteers at our North Somerset service. She is a Good Neighbours volunteer who visits an older lady in her local area once a week.
“I’ve been volunteering for Royal Voluntary Service for six months. I've been volunteering on and off since I was 14 but really wanted to get involved in something more regular and long term within the local community. Once I'd read the Royal Voluntary service mission statement and found out they needed volunteers locally, I was committed and am now a proud Good Neighbour.
"I am passionate about volunteering as I've always believed in giving what you can spare if it could benefit someone.
“Just an hour of my time each week provides a regular visitor and a familiar face to an older lady living alone, who often goes days without seeing anyone. It gives her something to look forward to and both of us the opportunity to engage with someone of a different generation.
“Every Monday, we chat over tea and cake, share baking tips, listen to records and generally enjoy each other’s company. It’s wonderful knowing that such a simple act provides much needed companionship and I'm proud to be able to do it.
“One of the best things about volunteering is knowing that you can make a difference and bring a smile to someone just by offering your company. In a time where interactions are often hurried and replaced by texts and emails, engaging in good old fashion conversation is a wonderful way to spend an hour.
“Whether you can commit to a regular phone call, an hour a week or an hour a day, there is always something you can offer to help make a difference to someone else's life. I'd recommend it to everyone, be part of something wonderful and get involved.
“I'm so glad I signed up to volunteer, I only wish I had more time to offer!”
Have a look at some of the other blogs in our Volunteers’ Week series:
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Volunteers - a lifeline for my Dad
In the next installment of our Volunteers’ Week
series, we hear from a family whose father has been supported and enriched by Royal Voluntary Service volunteers
“My father was widowed in 2009. He and my late mother were rarely apart during their 50 year marriage, so the loneliness my Dad felt was profound. For a year or so, Dad struggled to re-build his life and maintain his independence. But, as he began to lose physical and mental capacity, this became increasingly difficult.
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“In 2012, Dad was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s and the following year, it was confirmed he was also suffering from Parkinson’s. These illnesses significantly impaired Dad’s ability to get out and meet people and increased his sense of isolation and loneliness. He had carers calling in throughout the day but their fleeting and functional visits didn’t amount to meaningful company. The Royal Voluntary Service Good Neighbours service has been such an enormous benefit for Dad.
“Linda began visiting Dad in 2013. Dad is an accomplished writer, who has had plays broadcast on BBC Radio 4 and overseas and has also featured in the Guardian’s Country Diary. He has a vast collection of unpublished prose and poetry including numerous funny poems written for his 7 grandchildren over the years. Dad was keen to get all the pieces properly typed up and edited and he wanted to regain confidence using his computer so he could start writing again.
“For an hour each week, Linda patiently worked through his literary archive and helped him with his keyboard skills. They quickly developed a great rapport and Dad really looked forward to her visits. The company was great for him and he was boosted by the help that Linda gave him.
“When Linda stopped volunteering to look after her grandchild, our local service arranged for Fran to visit Dad and continue to help with his writing archive and his computer skills. They spent a lot of time talking and Dad particularly liked to discuss Fran’s progress with her university studies. This gave him the opportunity to slip back into his former professional role as a teacher and university lecturer. He particularly enjoyed offering Fran advice on her assignments and giving her encouragement. Whilst his Alzheimer’s progressed during the two years Fran visited Dad, he had sufficient capacity to feel he was doing something useful and this gave him a great sense of satisfaction.
“I don’t think elderly people in Dad’s position ever really get over the loss of a long term partner and rebuilding their lives after bereavement is hugely challenging. This is why the regular contact and company provided by Royal Voluntary Service volunteers through Good Neighbours scheme is so important. For people like my Dad, it has provided a lifeline; helping to him to combat his loneliness and maintain his independence.”
Read our previous blog in our Volunteers' Week series Meet our volunteers during Volunteers' Week 2016.
Meet our volunteers during Volunteers' Week 2016
To mark the start of Volunteers’ Week
, we’re introducing you to some of inspirational volunteers from around the country. This year, Volunteers’ Week has been bigger than ever
and will be running from 1 – 12 June as part of the celebrations of our patron Her Majesty the Queen
’s birthday and in recognition of her lifetime of service to Royal Voluntary Service and over 600 other charities.
Today, meet Dave, 76, is a volunteer in our Good Neighbours
scheme in Oxfordshire
. He provides lifts to older people in the area so that they can get out and about and visit our social centre
. Dave says that he gets a lot out of volunteering
"I enjoy helping people, I think it’s important. Everybody needs a friend in this world or someone to talk to."
Dave, Royal Voluntary Service Volunteer
One of the people that Dave helps each week is Sylvia, 91.
"Dave is always looking out for me, he picks me up and takes me to the "Friday Club" at the Royal Voluntary Service Centre in Banbury. I really enjoy it because there’s good company and things to do. We play games, have some lunch and there’s always tea and coffee. I think all the volunteers are nice, helpful and courteous, we’re very lucky to have them all. There is about 20 of us who come to the Friday Club, and we couldn’t be together or have as much fun if it wasn’t for the volunteers like Dave."
Funds raised by players of People’s Postcode Lottery
are helping to fund our Good Neighbours
schemes and social activities
where older people can get together across Great Britain.
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What did wartime women do for us?
Many don’t realise that during World War Two, over one million women volunteered their time through the Women’s Voluntary Service (WVS). Women played a fundamental role in factories and on farms but also provided social welfare to families, service men and women and helped to promote the war effort.
WVS volunteers strived to ensure that there was a functioning country for the armed forces to return to in peacetime. Their efforts show that a war can be won by the strength of its home front.
"None of this work would be possible without the goodwill of thousands upon thousands of ordinary British women, who realize that the best contribution they can make towards winning the war is to carry on with their own home life… and help to build up a comfortable and happy home life for the stranger."
Lady Reading, Founder of WVS, October 1939
These brave wartime women cared for evacuees, worked in knitting parties to make essential items for the forces and salvaged metal to build tanks and weapons. In larger towns and cities where bombing was a threat, they ran mobile canteens to feed the hungry and rest centres during major incidents.
While much WVS work passed without incident in small towns and villages around the country, those in towns and cities were coping with the destruction wrought by luftwaffe bombing raids. In 1941 alone, 25 WVS centres were destroyed and by the end of the war, 243 WVS members had lost their lives as a result of enemy action. Amongst all of this destruction there was much scope for heroism with five George Medals were awarded to WVS members during the war as well as hosts of other honours.
Of course, volunteers were not always willing. Instances of dissatisfaction were certainly common but they were usually resolved happily. Reports show that a woman refused to knit gloves as she hadn’t done it before and nothing could persuade her otherwise. The following day, however, she returned with a change of heart which she explained: “This morning a squadron of Spitfires flew over my house, and if those boys can do that for me, I can knit gloves for them!”
We want to keep these contributions alive but they face an uncertain future. Make history and support our Hidden Histories of A Million Wartime Women project on Kickstarter from as little as £2.