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“Without her, I’d be lonely”
Meet Vera and Louise who have been brought together by volunteering. Vera, 89, has been a widow for a long time but after her husband died, her son stayed with her during the week, commuting back to his family Devon at the weekends. Sadly, he died very suddenly two years ago and Vera was on her own. The rest of her family live in Plymouth and although they keep in touch by phone, they live too far away to see her that often. Vera’s mobility is restricted so she moved into a residential home.
Louise, a former social worker, visits Vera in the home and Vera says they get on very well together:
“Louise is so happy, she comes in, pulls up her chair and we talk about anything and everything and put the world to rights. She’s so bright and breezy, I never see her looking miserable! It means I’ve got something to look forward to on a Friday afternoon, otherwise I’d be by myself. I don’t need a carer, I have someone to do the housework and all my meals are provided. Louise is company - I miss people and without her, I’d be lonely.”
Louise has noticed a big change in Vera in the last few months:
“Vera was very quiet when I started visiting her. She was a bit depressed and felt isolated. I come and have a chat and keep her company. It’s more than a social occasion - you build up a relationship with the people you visit”
Louise has volunteered for several organisations but, as a trained social worker, wanted to be able to use her skills with people on an individual basis so she got in touch with Royal Voluntary Service.
“I do it because I love it. I get satisfaction from knowing that I’ve made someone happy. I see it as a two-way thing – I give Vera a bit of company and myself something to do too. It keeps us both happy!”
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“Volunteering has given me a purpose”
In the second in our Volunteers Week blog series, we’ve travelled to Port Talbot to introduce you to Sheila and Ann. They volunteer at Neath Port Talbot Hospital; you’ll see them in the Royal Voluntary Service shops and on the trolley round.
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“I’ve been volunteering for two years and it’s given me lots of confidence as I get to meet a lot of new people.
“I help people to selects gifts in the shop as well as making sure we have enough stock on the shelves and assisting with paperwork in the office. I also help with the trolley round that visits the wards.
“I volunteer three days a week and like to get out and about to sell drinks and sweets to staff and patients. I really like to talk to patients as they might not have any visitors.
“Volunteering has definitely helped to grow my confidence; I feel needed. There is a social side too; volunteers and staff go out together at Christmas and have a good time. I’d recommend it to others.
“My Service Manager, who runs three shops, says that we are priceless. Volunteering has given me a purpose.”
“I’ve been volunteering with Royal Voluntary Service for 5 years. I work in the shop and run a trolley service around the wards of the hospital. I help customers with presents and sell lottery tickets, drinks and refreshments across three shops in the hospital.
“I was inspired to volunteers when my husband passed away. As a widow, life was lonely. I had previously worked in the public sector and I missed communicating with people. Volunteering has helped me to feel less isolated.
“I volunteer three days a week and take the trolley shop to the wards so that staff and patients can stock up on their favourite drinks and snacks. It’s nice to go to them as many patients don’t have regular visitors. I like working with volunteers from all walks of life and meeting new people.
“Volunteering enriches life and helps others who are less fortunate than me. I hope that when I volunteer, it makes an impression on people and inspires them to volunteer too.”
Royal Voluntary Service has over 440 hospital shops and cafés
all over Great Britain which serve patients, visitors and staff with a smile. Any profit goes back into providing services to older people in the community. Find out more about volunteering or support for older people near you.
"I'd recommend volunteering"
As part of our series of blogs celebrating Volunteers Week, meet Heather who works as a hospital shop volunteer and Volunteer Manager at Seacroft Hospital, Wharfedale Hospital and St James Hospital in Leeds.
“I’ve been volunteering in the shop for about a year and have been running the shop sites for three hospitals in Leeds for two years. I recruit, train and manage volunteers for all of the shops and make sure that great service is delivered every time.
“I was inspired to start volunteering after using the Royal Voluntary Service café at Seacroft Hospital as a patient for some time. I always got great service; the volunteers were really friendly and looked like they were having fun whilst doing it.
“I love the variety that comes with working in three different hospitals. I love recruiting and training new volunteers and seeing them enjoy their volunteering like I do. I also enjoy serving my customers in the shop, café or on the trolley on the wards. I work with some fantastic people and we make a difference to the people in the hospitals at difficult times.
“I’d recommend volunteering in a Royal Voluntary Service hospital shop or café to others because it’s a way of offering a fantastic service and experience to patients, visitors and staff. People tell me that it’s great to have somewhere friendly and comfortable to go while waiting for appointments which makes the job worthwhile.
“I enjoy serving my customers in the shop, café or on the trolley on the wards. I work with some fantastic people and we make a difference to the people in the hospitals at difficult times. Next week I am going to a Garden Party with Queen in my role as a volunteer. I am so excited!”
Royal Voluntary Service runs a host of shops and cafés in hospitals as well as community projects all over Great Britain. Find out about volunteering opportunities in your area or get support for a loved one.
Volunteering. It’s in our name and has been part of the organisation since its conception nearly 80 years ago. Today, at the start of Volunteers Week, Royal Voluntary Service has around 35,000 volunteers who support older people around Great Britain. I want to say a personal thank you to each and every one of you.
I see the incredible impact that you make on your communities and the country as a whole. You work tirelessly to make a difference to those around you and you make a difference to thousands of lives every day. I’m heartened to hear the sentiments of those who are supported by you and the thanks passed on from family members who care so deeply and hugely appreciate the time you spend with their loved ones.
I want to take this opportunity to express my thanks to all of our volunteers. Some have provided support for decades while others have been welcomed into our ranks in recent weeks. Whether you’re just starting out on your volunteering journey or you have many years of service to look back on, we appreciate your support.
Volunteers Week runs 1 – 7 June that celebrates the difference that volunteers make every day. Find out how to join our Royal Voluntary Service volunteers or see how to get support near you.
"Volunteering - I see the benefits and enjoy it immensely."
It’s Volunteers Week and we’re celebrating with tea parties and events all over the country. To kick start the week, meet Avril who lives in Haddington and volunteers for the Good Neighbours service in East Lothian, Scotland.
“I’ve been volunteering with Royal Voluntary Service for two years and am a companion for two older ladies who live near me as well as helping out with transport to help get people out and about.
“I visit both ladies every week for a chat; we get on so well. One lady is virtually housebound so my visits are particularly important for her. I go out with the other lady, who is more mobile, and we go to the shops together occasionally.
“Volunteering as a befriender makes a big difference to the local community as it helps to reduce isolation and gives people something to look forward to; I see the benefits of my visits and enjoy it immensely.
“Helping others with transport means that they can attend doctors’ appointments and take part in social activities, which they might not be able to access on their own.
“I benefit greatly from volunteering; I feel that I add something to the community and help those who are not as able as myself. It gives me a lovely sense of fulfilment.
One of the ladies that Avril visits said “Befriending alleviates loneliness; I’m grateful for the visits. They allow me to share my points of view with Avril, which is very stimulating.
“Before Avril’s visits, I was in complete isolation for over ten months – a very long time. Although I have a lady who helps with cleaning and my son who does my weekly shopping, they don’t have time to spend chatting.
“Avril’s visits gives me companionship after being so isolated. It’s such a good service.”
is an annual event which celebrates the difference volunteers make to every community across the country. Royal Voluntary Service provides support to older people across Great Britain through a network of volunteers like Avril. Find out how to volunteer near you
or get local support for an older person
"Royal Voluntary Service has provided me with a social life"
Tom is 98 and has been a regular at the workshop ever since it started. Tom used to work on a farm and as a gardener and driver. He retired at the age of 85, after many fruitful years of work. Tom says the workshop has been a central part of his life.
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“I’m the last person remaining from my generation so I don’t have many friends left. Royal Voluntary Service’s Social Centre has provided me with a social life since it began, and now the workshop has given me more friends.”
Tom likes getting involved with woodwork and he’s made bird tables, bird boxes and planters. Sometimes the men make craft items so he’s done some painting too.
“I like doing things, I’m very handy so the workshop keeps me active and using my skills. I also get to meet friends and have some company as I don’t get much at home.”
“You can’t go wrong; everyone is happy. I tell everyone about the workshop, and I get people to buy our items too.”
Thanks to funds raised by players of People’s Postcode Lottery
are helping us to provide places where older people can get together across Great Britain. Sheds
are a brilliant way to bring people together and reduce social isolation; they were founded by men and some sheds welcome all members of the community, regardless of gender. Find local services near you
to support older people in your area.
“We enjoy each other’s company.”
Meet Elaine who regularly visits four older people as part of the Royal Voluntary Service East Cheshire Service. One of the people she supports is Gordon, who is 94 and lives in the countryside.
Gordon says: “It’s quite rural where I live and, because I don’t have a car and can’t walk very far, it can be quite lonely. Elaine comes to see me every week and we usually go to a luncheon club in Handforth Dean or sometimes we stay more local. It depends on how the mood takes us. I seldom chat to people so it’s great to see Elaine and the others at the club.”
Gordon has a daughter who does his shopping and visits him but he doesn’t really see anyone else. He spends his time relaxing and watching TV. Before retiring, Gordon was an Electronics Engineer on ships and spent a lot of his time travelling the world, leading a team of twenty men. He and Elaine like to chat about his work and they like getting out and about as well as meeting the other regular diners at the luncheon club.
Elaine adds: “I really look forward to spending time with Gordon. We enjoy each other’s company.
“I do a lot of volunteering; I love it. I think it is very important to give something back. Time is one thing that can’t be bought; giving time is important, especially if you can help someone who is housebound and lonely.”
We’d like to thank players of People’s Postcode Lottery
who are helping older people across Great Britain through the funds that they raise for Royal Voluntary Service. Get support for an older person
through a local service or join our team of volunteers
making a difference every day.
Charity running tips from a marathon finisher
Meet Thomas, who’s running the London Marathon to raise money for Royal Voluntary Service in April. Find out how he motivates himself while training and on the big day itself.
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I have been running for nearly 4 years now and during that time, I joined a local running club. I have since ran countless 5ks, 10ks and half marathons. I’ve run the London marathon twice now and 2017 will be my third time.
Royal Voluntary Service is a charity that is close to my heart with both my grandparents receiving support
from them when they were living at home independently. They are an excellent charity and I want to raise their profile and help support the ever increasing work that they do to help older people.
The care and support received from volunteers is fantastic and it is comforting to know that older people are cared for when they need it. I also feel it’s important that older people are able to live independently in their homes through the good work that Royal Voluntary Service do.
I have a target of raising £1,000 for Royal Voluntary Service. I will be asking friends, family, and generous work colleagues for sponsorship. I’m also planning to do a cake sale at work and possibly a curry or quiz night to raise funds.
I’ve been training as much as I can; it can be quite hard to fit runs in during the week as I work in London. I do long runs on a Saturday morning meaning I’m gone for around three hours at a time. It is even more challenging this year as I have a little 9 month old son who keeps me very busy!
My best marathon tip is to keep up with training. Ensure you do a few 20 mile runs or running continuously for three or more hours, and that you get to your longest run before a marathon. By doing this, you will know what it takes and be mentally prepared for the marathon itself. My training sessions are fuelled by water, gels, salt and energy tablets. Plus sheer determination to succeed, of course!
I stay motivated by keeping focused on the big day. I’m looking forward to running the best marathon in the world. Having a personal goal of a finish time you want to achieve on the day can be helpful too. It’s always good knowing that you have to put the miles in to hopefully get the result you want. It’s not easy though - no pain, no gain as they say.
We’ll be cheering Thomas on as he and Team Royal Voluntary Service run the Virgin Money London Marathon on Sunday 23rd April. Find out how to raise money for Royal Voluntary Service through charity challenges. Read Jamie's story, who ran the London Marathon for Royal Voluntary Service in 2016.
“Healthier choices for food shopping in hospitals”
Kate Bull, Executive Director of Retail, tells us about the new shop opened in Hairmyres Hospital in East Lanarkshire.
Today is a momentous day; we’re opening a hospital shop with a difference. After cutting the ribbon and opening to the public, our Shop & Co in Hairmyres Hospital, East Kilbride will serve staff, patients and visitors with healthy groceries and refreshments. Like all of our 440 shops around Great Britain, it is managed locally and staffed by a team of friendly staff and volunteers.
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Our research has found that eating healthily is one of the many struggles for NHS staff. 41 per cent of doctors and nurses in Scotland have one or no pieces of fruit and vegetables during a typical working day. We’re trying to make things as easy as possible to get hold of healthier food choices in hospitals; we launched our first Revitalise shop in October which specialises in delicious food with dietary options for gluten free and vegan customers. From today, you’ll be able to find sushi, salads, fruit, dried fruit and healthy take home products such as cauliflower rice and soups at Shop & Co.
We know the access to healthier food and drink choices through our shops and cafes will have a huge impact on the health of hospital staff, visitors and patients in Scotland. Our predictions show that our shops and cafés will provide 3.4 million people with access to healthier food and drink. A focus on healthier snacks will see 30,000 portions of fruit and vegetables consumed and fat consumption from crisps will reduce by three million grams while salt consumption will be reduced by 15,000 teaspoons.
Anything sold in Shop & Co, like all of our shops and cafés, is price matched against similar retailers so that you can be sure that you’re getting a good deal. And profits raised help to fund Royal Voluntary Service’s work supporting isolated older people like our Home from Hospital [link] service which helps the transition when someone is discharged. It’s been proven to reduce complications when an older person goes home and reduces the likelihood of a return visit to hospital. It’s a nice feeling when your shopping gives back to those in need.
Today is the next step in our transformation of our shops and cafés all over Great Britain to provide a modern shopping experience while incorporating healthy choices for all. We hope to work with other commissioners and hospital partners to provide a healthier retail experience.
Royal Voluntary Service hospital shops and cafés
provide a friendly face as well as refreshment to hospital patients, visitors and staff. Find out how to volunteer near you
“Victoria makes a huge difference to our lives"
Funds raised by players of People’s Postcode Lottery are helping us to run a specialist service in Doncaster, helping older people with dementia and their carers. Wendy and Ken have only been using the Doncaster Dementia Support service for a short time but Victoria, their volunteer, has had a big impact on their lives.
“Victoria makes a huge difference to our lives; she is a lovely, gentle person. It’s an amazing relief for me that I don’t worry about Ken when she’s with him. She takes him in his wheelchair on her own and they go to the shops.”
While Ken was working as a Vicar in South London, he was crushed by a lorry and subsequently uses a wheelchair. Having recently retired and following a severe fall, tests revealed that he had suffered from a stroke leading to vascular dementia and Alzheimer’s. His wife of 28 years, Wendy, is his main carer. They live together in a bungalow and find it difficult to get out and about, which can make them quite isolated.
“Both of us were very isolated. It’s lucky that we love each other very much. We try to be happy in all circumstances.”
Victoria visits Ken & Wendy for two hours every alternate Monday, so that Wendy and her daughter can get out of the house and do some shopping.
“I think I provide reassurance to Wendy, she knows that Ken is ok when I’m there. Ken and I play scrabble which is good for his memory. When we go to the shops, I encourage him to reach and get things from the shelves. I try and encourage his independence skills as much as possible.
“Volunteering gives me a sense of purpose, I feel valued and appreciated. I know that Wendy relies on me so I make sure I’m always on time. I know I make an impact, and because of that I feel more connected to the community I live in.”
Victoria has two small children and a third on the way, but she still finds time to volunteer, because she enjoys it.
“My Aunty passed away and I was grieving, my friend who is a volunteer suggested I do something to ‘brighten up my life.’ And it has, I am much happier for knowing Wendy and Ken.”
Thank you to People's Postcode Lottery players
for helping Royal Voluntary Service to make a difference to the lives of older people all over Great Britain. Join our team of volunteers
and improve lives near you.